Understanding Alabama Family Law: Key Rules for Divorce, Custody, and Support
A practical guide to Alabama’s divorce, child custody, and support laws for parents and spouses.

How Alabama Handles Family Law Matters
Alabama’s family law system governs how marriages are dissolved, how children are cared for after separation, and how financial responsibilities are divided. For anyone going through a divorce or custody dispute, understanding the state’s legal framework is essential to making informed decisions and protecting the well-being of children and assets.
Grounds for Ending a Marriage in Alabama
Alabama allows both fault-based and no-fault grounds for divorce. A no-fault divorce can be granted when the marriage is irretrievably broken with no reasonable chance of reconciliation. This is often the simplest path when both parties agree that the marriage cannot continue.
Fault-based grounds include:
- Adultery
- Abandonment for at least six months
- Cruel and inhumane treatment that endangers life or health
- Imprisonment for at least two years after conviction
- Substance abuse that makes cohabitation intolerable
- Irreconcilable differences (in some cases treated as no-fault)
Either spouse can file for divorce in Alabama if at least one party has lived in the state for six months before filing. The court must find that the grounds are proven before granting the divorce.
Property Division: Equitable, Not Always Equal
Alabama is an equitable distribution state, meaning marital property is divided fairly, but not necessarily 50/50. Marital property includes assets and debts acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the title. Separate property—such as inheritances or gifts received by one spouse—usually remains with that spouse.
When deciding how to divide property, courts consider factors such as:
- Length of the marriage
- Each spouse’s contributions to the marriage (financial and non-financial)
- Each spouse’s age, health, and earning capacity
- Each spouse’s future financial needs
- Whether one spouse wasted marital assets
Spouses can avoid court involvement by reaching a written settlement agreement that covers property, debts, and other issues. If they cannot agree, the judge will decide what is equitable under the circumstances.
Child Custody: What Courts Consider
Alabama courts decide custody based on the best interests of the child. There is no automatic preference for mothers or fathers; instead, the focus is on which arrangement will best support the child’s safety, stability, and development.
Key factors the court evaluates include:
- Each parent’s ability to provide a safe, stable, and nurturing home
- Each parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent
- The child’s relationship with each parent, siblings, and other important people
- Each parent’s physical and mental health
- Each parent’s history of involvement in the child’s daily life
- Any history of domestic violence, abuse, or substance misuse
- The child’s preferences, if old enough and mature enough to express them
Custody is divided into legal custody (decision-making authority) and physical custody (where the child lives). Joint legal custody is common, allowing both parents to share major decisions about education, health care, and religion. Physical custody may be shared or awarded primarily to one parent, depending on the situation.
Parenting Plans and Visitation Schedules
Alabama law requires parents to submit a parenting plan in custody cases. This plan outlines how time will be shared, how decisions will be made, and how disputes will be resolved. Even if one parent has primary physical custody, the other parent typically has a visitation schedule that allows regular contact.
A strong parenting plan should address:
- Regular weekly and weekend schedules
- Holidays, birthdays, and school breaks
- Transportation arrangements and responsibilities
- Communication methods (phone, video, text)
- How changes to the schedule will be handled
- Procedures for resolving disagreements
When parents cannot agree, the court will create a plan that promotes the child’s best interests and meaningful involvement with both parents, as long as it is safe to do so.
Recent Changes: The Shift Toward Shared Parenting
Alabama has been moving toward a legal framework that encourages shared parenting when both parents are fit and capable. A key development is the growing emphasis on joint custody as a starting point in many cases.
Under recent legislative changes, courts are now expected to:
- Begin with a presumption that joint legal and physical custody serves the child’s best interests
- Define “frequent and substantial contact” as roughly equal or nearly equal time with both parents
- Require a detailed parenting time plan in every custody case, even if joint custody is not requested
- Provide written findings when joint custody is not ordered, explaining why it would not be in the child’s best interest
These changes aim to reduce ambiguity, promote consistency across cases, and ensure that both parents remain actively involved in their children’s lives, unless safety or well-being concerns justify a different arrangement.
Child Support: How Payments Are Calculated
Alabama uses the Income Shares Model to calculate child support. This model estimates how much both parents would spend on a child if they lived together and then divides that amount based on each parent’s income.
The basic steps are:
- Determine each parent’s gross monthly income (wages, self-employment, benefits, etc.)
- Calculate the combined monthly income
- Use the state’s child support guidelines to find the total support obligation based on the number of children
- Divide that obligation in proportion to each parent’s share of the combined income
Additional factors that can affect the final amount include:
- Health insurance and medical expenses for the child
- Child care costs related to employment or education
- Extraordinary educational or medical needs
- Time each parent spends with the child (in some cases)
Support orders are legally enforceable. Failure to pay can result in wage garnishment, license suspension, tax refund interception, and other penalties.
Modifying Custody and Support Orders
Life changes—such as job loss, relocation, remarriage, or changes in a child’s needs—may justify modifying custody or support arrangements.
To change custody, the requesting parent must show:
- A material change in circumstances
- That the change is in the child’s best interests
For child support, modifications are possible when there is a significant change in income, the child’s needs, or the amount of time the child spends with each parent. Courts generally require a formal petition and updated financial information before changing an existing order.
Grandparents’ Rights and Third-Party Custody
While parents have a fundamental right to make decisions about their children, Alabama law recognizes that in certain situations, custody may be awarded to grandparents or other third parties.
This typically happens when:
- Both parents are deemed unfit due to abuse, neglect, or abandonment
- One parent has died and the other is unable or unwilling to care for the child
- A child has lived with a grandparent or relative for a significant period and that arrangement is in the child’s best interest
Grandparents may also seek visitation rights in limited circumstances, such as when the parents are divorced, one parent has died, or the child has lived with the grandparent for a certain period. However, these rights are not automatic and must be approved by the court.
Domestic Violence and Protective Orders
Alabama takes domestic violence seriously in family law cases. A history of abuse is a critical factor in custody decisions and can limit or restrict a parent’s access to the child.
Victims of domestic violence can seek a protective order (restraining order) to:
- Prohibit contact or communication
- Require the abuser to leave the home
- Grant temporary custody and exclusive possession of the residence
- Order the abuser to stay away from the victim’s workplace or school
Protective orders can be temporary (ex parte) or long-term, depending on the evidence presented. Courts must consider any history of domestic violence when making custody and visitation decisions, and may impose supervised visitation or other safeguards to protect the child.
Practical Steps for Handling a Family Law Case
Navigating family law issues can be emotionally and legally complex. Here are some practical steps to help:
- Consult an experienced family law attorney. An attorney can explain your rights, help you gather evidence, and represent you in court.
- Keep detailed records. Save copies of financial documents, communication with the other parent, school and medical records, and any incidents of conflict or abuse.
- Focus on the child’s best interests. Courts prioritize the child’s safety, stability, and well-being over parental preferences.
- Try to cooperate when possible. Settlements reached through negotiation or mediation are often faster, less expensive, and less stressful than trials.
- Follow court orders carefully. Violating custody, visitation, or support orders can have serious legal consequences.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can a father get custody in Alabama?
Yes. Alabama does not favor mothers over fathers. Custody is decided based on the child’s best interests, not the parent’s gender. A father who is actively involved, stable, and capable can be awarded primary or joint custody.
At what age can a child decide which parent to live with?
There is no fixed age when a child can choose their custodial parent. However, as children get older and more mature, courts give greater weight to their preferences. The judge will consider the child’s age, maturity, and reasoning, but the final decision remains with the court.
How long does a divorce take in Alabama?
An uncontested divorce with no children and simple property issues can be finalized in about six weeks after filing. Contested divorces, especially those involving custody or complex assets, can take several months or longer, depending on the court’s schedule and the level of disagreement.
Can child support be modified?
Yes. Either parent can request a modification if there is a significant change in income, the child’s needs, or parenting time. The court will review updated financial information and decide whether to adjust the support amount.
What happens if a parent doesn’t follow the custody or visitation order?
The other parent can file a contempt motion with the court. If the judge finds that the order was violated without a valid reason, the court can impose penalties such as fines, make-up visitation, or changes to the custody arrangement. Repeated violations may lead to more serious consequences.
Do I need a lawyer for a divorce or custody case?
While it is possible to handle a simple divorce or custody case without a lawyer, having legal representation is strongly recommended, especially when children, property, or conflict are involved. A family law attorney can help protect your rights and ensure that agreements are fair and enforceable.
References
- Alabama Code Title 30 – Domestic Relations — Alabama Legislature. Accessed 2025. https://alison.legislature.state.al.us/
- Alabama Child Support Guidelines — Alabama Department of Human Resources. 2025. https://dhr.alabama.gov/
- Alabama Family Law, 2d ed. (Alabama Practice Series) — Thomson Reuters. 2025–2026. https://store.legal.thomsonreuters.com/law-products/Treatises/ProView-Plus-Print-Alabama-Family-Law-2d-Alabama-Practice-Series/p/106688402
- House Bill 229 – Best Interest of the Child Protection Act — Alabama Legislature. 2025. https://alison.legislature.state.al.us/files/pdf/SearchableInstruments/2025RS/HB229-int.pdf
- Children’s Rights Council – Alabama Family Law Overview — Children’s Rights Council. 2025. https://crckids.org/legal-resources/family-law-overview/alabama-law/
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